Glucose Spikes: The Hidden Cause of Fatigue, Cravings, and Weight Gain — And How to Fix Them

Glucose Spikes: The Hidden Cause of Fatigue, Cravings, and
Weight Gain — And How to Fix Them

Most of us think of glucose as a good thing, after all, it’s the body’s primary fuel.

Every cell in your body uses glucose to carry out its essential work:

  • your brain uses it to think,
  • your heart uses it to pump,
  • your lungs use it to breathe,
  • and your muscles use it to move.

But while glucose is essential, the way we consume it matters. And in today’s world of
constant snacking, oversized portions, and highly processed foods, we’re flooding our
system with more glucose than it can handle.

The Result?

A rollercoaster of glucose spikes and crashes that leave us feeling tired, hungry, irritable,
foggy and often struggling with stubborn weight gain.
The good news: You can dramatically reduce glucose spikes with simple shifts in how you
eat, not what you eat.
Let’s break it all down.


What Is a Glucose Spike?

A glucose spike happens when you consume foods that raise your blood sugar quickly —
usually refined carbs or sugary foods.

Examples include:

  • Bread, pasta, rice, potatoes
  • Cakes, pastries, sweets
  • Sugary drinks
  • Fruit eaten alone
  • “Healthy” snacks like granola bars or smoothies

When a large amount of glucose hits your bloodstream all at once, your body experiences a
surge, a spike. Shortly after, you experience a drop, often lower than where you started.


The Symptoms of Glucose Spikes

If you often feel:

  • Afternoon fatigue
  • Hunger every 1–2 hours
  • Sugar or carb cravings
  • Mood swings
  • Brain fog
  • Low energy after meal
  • Difficulty losing weight

………then glucose spikes are likely a major factor.


Why These Spikes Are a Problem

When glucose spikes, your pancreas releases insulin, a hormone that acts like your body’s
traffic controller.

Its job is to pull excess glucose out of the bloodstream to protect your cells
from damage caused by:

  • Glycation
    This process “ages” cells faster and increases inflammation.
  • Oxidative Stress
    Especially from fructose, which cannot be stored in muscles and often goes straight to fat
    storage.

Insulin does an amazing job it protects you, but it must put that extra glucose
somewhere.


Where Does Excess Glucose Go? The 3 Storage Units

Your body has a hierarchy of storage:

1. The Liver
First stop. Stores glucose as glycogen.

2. The Muscles
They also store glycogen, but only enough to fuel activity.
These two are limited — like small suitcases that fill up quickly.

3. Fat Cells
Once the liver and muscles are full, insulin converts excess glucose to fat and stores it in
your fat cells. And when fat cells fill up?
Your body simply creates more.

This is why repeated glucose spikes lead to:

  • Increased body fat
  • Expanding fat cells
  • Hormonal imbalance
  • Higher inflammation
  • Constant hunger and cravings

And here’s something even more important:

When insulin is present, fat-burning shuts off.
If you are always spiking glucose, you are rarely in a fat-burning state.


What About Fructose?

Fructose is handled differently:

  • It cannot be stored in muscles
  • It cannot be stored as glycogen
  • It is much more readily converted into fat
  • It contributes to oxidative stress, a process that can damage cells

This is why foods high in added fructose (like sodas, sweets, and syrups) can contribute
more quickly to fat gain and inflammation.


Why Fat Cells Expand

When even fat cells can’t keep up with the overflow, the body does something remarkable:
It creates more fat storage, expanding fat cells or making new ones to protect you from
dangerously high glucose levels in the blood.
It’s a survival mechanism, and although we should be grateful for it, there’s a downside.

When Insulin Is High, Fat-Burning Shuts Off

Whenever insulin is circulating (which is often, if glucose spikes happen regularly), the body
switches into storage mode rather than fat-burning mode.
This means:

  • Harder to lose weight
  • More frequent cravings
  • Low sustained energy
  • More hormonal volatility

In short, repeated glucose spikes make it difficult to feel steady, energized, and balanced.


How to Reduce Glucose Spikes (Without Giving Up Your Favourite
Foods)

Here are simple, science-backed strategies that flatten glucose curves and change how you
feel every single day.

1. Eat Your Food in the Right Order

This is one of the easiest and most powerful hacks.
Always eat:
VEGGIES → PROTEIN/FATS → CARBS

Why it works:

  • Fiber from veggies forms a protective mesh in your gut, slowing glucose absorption.
  • Proteins and fats further slow digestion.
  • Carbs eaten last cause a much smaller spike.
    Example:
    When eating spaghetti and salad, eat the salad first and the pasta last.

2. Add a Boost of Fiber Before a Carb-Heavy Meal

A simple vegetable starter can drastically reduce spikes:

  •  A handful of leafy greens
  • Cucumber slices
  • A small salad
  • Steamed veggies
  • A tablespoon of chia seeds in water before the meal
    Fiber = your glucose shield.

3. Never Eat Sugar or Fruit on an Empty Stomach

Fruit is healthy, but fruit alone—especially in the morning—creates major spikes because of
its fructose and glucose content.
Eat fruit:

  • With a meal
  • As dessert (instead of as a snack)
  • After fiber, protein, and fat

Smoothies and juices spike glucose even more because they remove fiber or break it down.


4. Add Vinegar Before Eating Carbs

1 tablespoon of vinegar (any type) in a glass of water before a meal can reduce glucose
spikes by up to 30%.
Why it works:

  • Acetic acid slows carbohydrate breakdown
  • Improves insulin sensitivity

Tip: Drink through a straw to protect teeth.


5. Move After Eating — Even for 10 Minutes

A short walk or light movement after meals helps muscles absorb glucose, lowering spikes
dramatically.
Ideas:

  • 10–15 min walk
  • Housework
  • Stretching
  • Dancing
  • Playing with kids

Movement is one of the most powerful tools for stable glucose.


6. Eat a Savoury Breakfast (NOT a Sweet One)

A Sweet breakfast such as:

  • Cereal
  • Fruit smoothies
  • Yogurt with honey
  • Toast with jam
    …sets you up for a day of spikes and crashes.

A Savoury breakfast stabilizes energy and appetite.
Examples:

  • Eggs & avocado
  • Greek yogurt with nuts and seeds
  • Veggie omelette
  • Tofu scramble
  • Savoury Oatmeal
  • Cottage cheese with berries (small portion)

7. Don’t Snack Constantly

Every time you snack — even on “healthy” carbs — insulin rises and fat burning stops.
Aim for 3 satisfying meals with balanced portions instead of frequent snacking.

If you must snack, choose:

  • Protein
  • Fat
  • Fiber
  • Nuts
  • Cheese
  • Veggies & dip

Avoid: fruit alone, granola bars, crackers, muffins.


8. Combine Carbs with Protein and Fat

Carbs alone spike glucose. Carbs with protein/fat spike much less.
Instead of:

  • A plain bagel add eggs or turkey
  • Pasta add chicken or tofu
  • Rice add veggies + avocado
    Balance prevents spikes.

What Happens When You Flatten Your Glucose Curves?

Clients often report:

✨ More stable energy
✨ Fewer cravings
✨ Clearer thinking
✨ Better mood
✨ Improved hormone balance
✨ Less bloating
✨ Reduced inflammation
✨ Easier weight loss
✨ Better sleep
✨ Feeling full longer
When your blood sugar is stable, your whole body feels calmer and more regulated.

Final Thoughts

Glucose is essential but consuming it wisely is key.
You don’t need extreme diets or food restriction.
By changing how you eat, not what you eat, you can dramatically improve energy, mood,
and metabolic health.
Small habits create big results.

 

 

 

 

 

How to Choose for You

Step Out of What Your Parents Chose for You — and Step Into What You Choose for Yourself

At some point in our lives, we all face a quiet but deeply important question:

Whose life am I actually living?

For many of us, the earliest parts of our journey were shaped by people who loved us: parents, guardians, or elders who believed they knew what was best. They chose schools, activities, expectations, hobbies, even the definition of “success.” And for a long time, we accepted those choices without question. It felt natural. It felt safe.
But then adulthood arrives, sometimes gently, sometimes like a slap in the face, and suddenly the structure we inherited no longer fits as neatly. The path we’re on stops feeling like ours, and something inside us whispers:
“It’s time to choose differently.”

The Invisible Inheritance
Many of us carry invisible inheritances from our families:
• the career they thought was “practical,”
• the personality they expected us to keep,
• the dreams they hoped we would pursue because they couldn’t.
These expectations might come from love, fear, culture, tradition, or even unhealed wounds passed down through generations. And while they may have helped us survive, they don’t always help us become.

Outgrowing What Was Chosen for You
Outgrowing those choices isn’t a betrayal. It doesn’t mean your parents were wrong or that you’re ungrateful. It simply means you’re expanding into the full, authentic version of yourself, a version they could never fully predict.
Your parents started your story.
But you get to continue it.

Stepping Into What You Choose
Stepping into your own life is rarely one big leap. It’s a series of small, courageous decisions:
• Choosing the passions that actually light you up.
• Choosing relationships that nourish you.
• Choosing work that aligns with your values.
• Choosing boundaries your younger self didn’t know were allowed.
• Choosing a life that feels like home—not performance.
This is the moment adulthood becomes empowerment instead of obligation.

You’re Allowed to Redesign Your Life
Even if you inherited a map, you’re allowed to redraw it.
Even if you were handed a script, you’re allowed to rewrite it.
Even if you spent years living someone else’s version of you, you are allowed right now to step into the version you choose.
Your life is yours.
Your choices are yours.
Your future belongs to you, not to the expectations placed on you.

Many clients come to me with a quiet sense of discomfort they can’t quite name.
They’re successful on paper, responsible, dependable yet something inside them feels misaligned. This isn’t unusual. In fact, it’s incredibly human.

Why We Follow the Path They Set
From childhood, we’re taught directly or indirectly what’s expected of us.
Maybe it was the “sensible” career, the personality we were rewarded for, the dreams they hoped we’d achieve, or the version of ourselves that felt safest in our family system.
These early influences aren’t mistakes. They were part of your foundation.
But foundations are meant to support growth not restrict it.

When Their Choices Become Too Small for You
At some stage, you may find that the life you’re living feels more like a continuation of their script than an expression of your own desires. That’s often the moment people seek therapy not because something is wrong, but because something is finally waking up.
You might notice:
• A sense of restlessness
• A feeling that you’re “performing” instead of living
• Confusion about what you actually want
• A subtle longing for a life that feels more aligned
This is not failure. This is awareness.

How Solution-Focused Hypnotherapy Helps
In solution-focused hypnotherapy, we don’t dig through your past or assign blame.
Instead, we work together to explore:
• Who you want to be now
• What choices feel right for you
• What future you’re ready to step into
Through guided relaxation (trance), your mind becomes more open and receptive to possibility. You gain clarity. You tap into your own internal resources. And you begin to imagine a life built from your own decisions and not inherited expectations.
It’s a gentle process, but a powerful one.

Choosing Your Own Path
You are allowed to evolve.
You are allowed to outgrow the choices that once felt secure.
You are allowed to choose differently from what your parents imagined for you.
The beauty of solution-focused work is that we don’t get stuck in the problem we focus on the steps that move you forward. Even the smallest shifts can create momentum toward a life that feels authentically yours.

You Don’t Have to Do It Alone
If part of you knows it’s time to step out of what was chosen for you …
and into what you choose for yourself …
I’m here to support you as you make that transition confidently, calmly, and with a clear vision of the future you want to create.
Your story doesn’t have to repeat the past.
You can write the next chapter on your own terms.

 

Jo Ray

 

The Hidden Cycle Behind Weight Gain – and How Solution Focused Hypnotherapy Can Help

Why You’re Always Hungry (Even When You’re Full)

Have you ever wondered why, despite your best efforts, you still feel constantly hungry – or why weight gain feels almost inevitable no matter how little you eat?

If this sounds familiar, you’re not alone.

What many people don’t realize is that hunger, cravings, and stubborn fat storage often stem from stress and hormonal imbalance not just willpower or diet.

The good news? There’s a way to break the cycle.


The Glucose–Insulin Loop: Why Sugar Spikes Keep You Stuck

Every time you eat, especially sugary or high-carb foods, your blood glucose rises. This triggers a release of insulin, a hormone that helps your body store that glucose.

But when we eat too frequently or rely on sugar for energy, insulin stays elevated for long periods. Over time, your body becomes more efficient at storing fat and less efficient at burning it.

Result: You may feel hungry soon after eating and gain weight more easily – even on a “normal” diet.


Leptin and Ghrelin: The Hormones Driving Your Appetite

Two powerful hormones influence how hungry or full you feel:

  • Leptin tells your brain, “I’m full.” It’s produced by fat cells. Ironically, the more fat you have, the more leptin your body makes—but too much can lead to leptin resistance. Your brain stops receiving the “I’m full” signal, so you keep eating.
  • Ghrelin tells your body, “I’m hungry.” When insulin and stress hormones (like cortisol) are high, ghrelin increases—so you feel ravenous even if your body has plenty of energy stored.

The Cycles:
More Fat → More Leptin → Leptin Resistance → Overeating → More Fat

Stress → More Cortisol → More Ghrelin → More Hunger → More Eating


Chronic Stress: The Root Cause That’s Often Overlooked

If your life feels like a never-ending to-do list or emotional rollercoaster, your body may be living in constant fight-or-flight mode.

This triggers the release of cortisol, your body’s main stress hormone.

Cortisol:

  • Increases your appetite (especially for sugary, high-fat “comfort” foods)
  • Encourages abdominal fat storage
  • Keeps you in a loop of stress → eat → guilt → stress

And here’s the twist: fat cells in the belly area have more cortisol receptors. So the more stress, the more belly fat. The more belly fat, the more cortisol. And so it continues.


Why Diets Alone Don’t Always Work

Here’s why diets can often fail:

  • They don’t address the root issue: stress and hormonal dysregulation.
  • They ignore emotional eating patterns formed in early life and stored in the subconscious brain.
  • They often create more stress (and therefore more cortisol), leading to rebound weight gain.

Unless you change how your mind responds to stress, the hunger, cravings, urges and comfort-eating will keep returning.


Breaking the Cycle with Solution Focused Hypnotherapy

At Jo Ray Hypnotherapy I can help clients go far beyond traditional diets.

Using Solution Focused Hypnotherapy, we work together to:

Empty the “stress bucket” – reducing background stress and calming the nervous system
Engage the intellectual brain – helping you respond consciously instead of reacting on autopilot
Reframe old patterns – such as emotional eating, guilt, binge eating, or late-night snacking
Create new, empowering habits using the brain’s natural neuroplasticity

Many clients are surprised to find that they’re no longer obsessed with food or battling constant cravings, because they’ve changed the pattern at the root.


Real Change is Possible

You may simply need a new approach—one that works with your mind and body, not against it.

If you’re feeling stuck in the cycle of stress, hunger, and weight gain contact Jo Ray Hypnotherapy based in Hove, East Sussex.

 

The Science of Emotional Contagion: Why Your Mood Isn’t Just Yours

Discover the Neuroscience behind Emotional Contagion

How mirror neurons, empathy, and brain-to-brain syncing explain why moods spread and how your emotions affect others


What Is Emotional Contagion?

Have you ever walked into a room and instantly felt tension even before anyone spoke? Or found yourself smiling just because someone nearby was laughing?
That’s not coincidence. It’s emotional contagion — your brain’s built-in ability to mirror the emotions of others.


🧠 The Power of Mirror Neurons

At the heart of emotional contagion lies the mirror neuron system. These special brain cells fire both when you perform an action and when you observe someone else doing it.

They explain why:

  • You wince when you see someone stub their toe.
  • You tear up watching someone cry.
  • You feel energized around happy, upbeat people.

Mirror neurons are the neurological foundation of empathy, allowing your brain to “feel” with others.


😬 Anxiety: The Emotional Amplifier

A moderate amount of anxiety can sharpen focus. But when it spikes, it distorts your emotional radar. You begin to misread cues, seeing threats that aren’t there.

Those already feeling anxious or unsafe are more susceptible to emotional contagion. Their brains stay on high alert, scanning for danger.
The fuller your stress bucket, the more reactive your emotional system becomes.


⚡ 33 Milliseconds to Fear: The Speed of Emotional Transfer

Your brain’s amygdala – responsible for processing fear – can detect a fearful facial expression in just 33 milliseconds. That’s faster than a blink.

This rapid response isn’t isolated to one brain. Emotional contagion activates interconnected neural circuits across individuals, forming what scientists call an interbrain circuit a real-time emotional feedback loop.


🔄 Brain-to-Brain Sync: How We Literally Connect

When you’re emotionally tuned in to someone, your brain waves sync up with theirs.
If they calm down, your nervous system relaxes too. If they get angry, your body reacts as if you’re in danger.

This is empathy at a neurological level, a shared emotional network between people. That’s why being present and undistracted is so powerful in relationships: your mirror neurons are fully online, helping you connect deeply and authentically.


🌍 The Ripple Effect: How Emotions Spread Across Networks

Emotions are contagious – literally. Studies show that feelings like happiness or depression can spread up to three degrees of separation.

Research has found:

  • If someone within a mile of you is depressed, your own risk of depression rises.

  • If a nearby friend is happy, your odds of being happy increase by 25%.

Your emotional state isn’t just yours – it influences your social circle, workplace, and even community.


🌱 The Takeaway: Your Mood Shapes Your World

Whether you’re a parent, partner, leader, or friend, your emotions matter.
You don’t need to be perfectly positive, but cultivating emotional awareness and grounded presence can spread calm, empathy, and connection.

So next time you feel overwhelmed, pause and breathe.
Your calm might just help someone else find theirs.

 

At Jo Ray Hypnotherapy in Hove, I will help you harness the power of your mind to achieve lasting positive change. As an experienced hypnotherapist, I use science-based solution focused hypnotherapy techniques and mindset tools to help you overcome challenges, build confidence, and unlock your full potential. Whether you want to reduce stress, break unwanted habits, or reach new personal or professional goals, I’ll guide you to create the clarity, motivation, and focus you need to thrive.

Breathe to Calm Anxiety: How Slow Breathing Soothes Stress

Have you ever noticed how your breath changes when you’re anxious or stressed?
Maybe your chest tightens, your heart races, and your breathing turns shallow.
That’s your body’s stress response, your built-in alarm system that is trying to protect you.
The problem is, in modern life, it often stays switched on far too long.

When anxiety hits, your mind may spiral with thoughts you can’t control.
But the one thing you can control is your breath, your breath can gently guide you back to calm.

Intentional breathing exercises for anxiety do more than just help you relax.
They directly influence your nervous system, activating the vagus nerve, which tells your body it’s safe to rest.
By learning to slow and deepen your breath, you can reduce anxiety, ease physical tension, and restore emotional balance.

In this guide, you’ll learn how your body’s stress response works, what the vagus nerve has to do with calm, and how simple breathwork techniques can help you shift from worry and panic to peace and clarity.


🧠 Your Body’s Emergency Response System

Let’s rewind thousands of years. Imagine you’re one of our early human ancestors. Suddenly, a predator appears. In an instant, your body shifts into survival mode.

Your sympathetic nervous system – often called the fight-or-flight response – springs into action.
🫀 ➕ 🧠 ➕ 💨 = ⚠️

Your heart rate climbs, sending more blood to your muscles.
You start breathing faster to take in extra oxygen.
Your brain races to find a way out of danger.

This automatic system kept our ancestors alive – but it hasn’t changed much since then.


📱 Fast Forward to Modern Stress

Today, you’re probably not being chased by wild animals.
But your brain doesn’t always know the difference between physical threats and psychological ones.

📱💼📈 = Same Stress Response

Deadlines, notifications, traffic jams, and constant noise can all trigger that same fight-or-flight system.
Your heart races, your breath shortens, and your thoughts speed up.

Your body is preparing for battle – except there’s no tiger to fight.


💨 Breathing: The Switch That Calms You Down

When the danger passes, your body is designed to return to a resting state.
That’s the job of your parasympathetic nervous system – your body’s rest-and-digest mode.

💨⬇️ + 🫀⬇️ = 🧘‍♀️

And the fastest way to activate it is through your breath.

Long, slow exhales send a signal through the vagus nerve – a powerful communication pathway between your brain and body – telling your system it’s safe to relax.


🌿 What Is Vagal Tone and Why It Matters

Scientists call your ability to shift from stress to calm vagal tone.
It reflects how efficiently your nervous system can recover after being triggered.

📊🧠🫀 = Vagal Training

Regular breathing exercises – often called breathwork – can strengthen this system.
Over time, you’ll find it easier to manage anxiety, recover from stress, and maintain emotional balance.

Think of it as resilience training for your nervous system.


🫁 The Breath Is Always with You

You can’t always control what happens around you – but you can control your breath.

Try this simple breathing exercise whenever you start to feel overwhelmed:

  • 🫁 Inhale gently through your nose for 4 seconds

  • 💨 Exhale slowly through your mouth for 6–8 seconds

  • 🔁 Repeat for 1–2 minutes

Each slow exhale acts as a reset button for your body.
You’re not just breathing – you’re sending yourself a powerful message: You are safe.


At Jo Ray Hypnotherapy in Hove, I will help you harness the power of your mind to achieve lasting positive change. As an experienced hypnotherapist, I use science-based solution focused hypnotherapy techniques and mindset tools to help you overcome challenges, build confidence, and unlock your full potential. Whether you want to reduce stress, break unwanted habits, or reach new personal or professional goals, I’ll guide you to create the clarity, motivation, and focus you need to thrive.